Girl wants to be friends after dating
You can start light, by just tapping her elbow and shoulder, and slowly work your way up to resting your hand for longer periods of time on her shoulder, back, leg, etc.
Doing this is going to help you for a few reasons: First, it gets the girl more comfortable with physical contact from you.
He’s merely accepting friendship, in lieu of dating you, because it beats the alternative. Having no girl friends, and, therefore, no one to confide in.
From the same article: “Men rated cross-sex friendships as being much higher in overall quality, enjoyment and nurturance than their same-sex friendships.
And while I don’t trust college boys to teach any life lessons in platonic friendship, even science validates their claim that men will sleep with their friends.
From this Psychology Today article: “In a study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, Sapadin asked more than 150 professional men and women what they liked and disliked about their cross-sex friendships. Men, on the other hand, more frequently replied that sexual attraction was a prime reason for initiating a friendship, and that it could even deepen a friendship.
But once you know how to start dating a friend you won’t have to suffer that pain any longer.
What you want is to get the girl to see you as a sexual being with your own wants and desires. By sprinkling in comments about sex and dating into your conversation.
Using sexual innuendo for example, will bring sex into the conversation in a fun, playful way.
They expect more emotional rewards from friendship than men do, explained Sapadin, so they’re easily disappointed when they don’t receive them. “Men confide in women.” This all reinforces a principle extolled in my book, “Why He Disappeared”.
Men don’t choose women because you’re taller, smarter, richer, funnier or more sophisticated.Here are the ways in which I’ve made women friends: 1) . It’s easy to be friends with someone you’d never sleep with. While attraction itself is not a choice, acting on that attraction is.